Road warriors, this is why we fly

by Ron Goltsch on February 16, 2010


We business travelers miss things at home. Because of our jobs, we have all missed plays, recitals, concerts, etc. I already missed a pair of basketball games this year. I have already had a busy year with work. It is only early February, but I have spent three weeks away from home. I was looking forward to a week at home, just working on projects in my office. But that was not meant to be.

My daughter is in the midst of a trip to Chicago with her church musical group performing the musical, Fiddler on the Roof. It has been planned for months, with my 14 year old Sara becoming progressively more and more excited as her date of departure approached. Sara is a road warrior in her own right, having traveled to places as diverse as Los Angeles, Nashville, Columbus, Sydney, and Auckland. Therefore, you would think that a simple trip to Chicago would be old hat. Well, it’s not. The chance to travel for a week, touring the states of Pennsylvania, Ohio, Indiana and Illinois with her friends has her more excited than I have ever seen her.

Knowing I have had a busy year, my boss reluctantly asked if I would be willing to visit another client in the Chicagoland area sometime in the next few weeks. I know that I shocked him when I asked if I could go this week.

Who, among we weary travelers, would turn down the opportunity to see their child’s play while they are traveling? Add in the thrill of surprising my daughter and it really is a no brainer.

Armed with my daughter’s group itinerary, I planned my flight so that I could be at the observation deck of the Willis Tower (Formerly Sears Tower) when her group arrived. My flight was on time, and I made it before they arrived upstairs. Accompanied by a stuffed animal that she would instantly recognize, I planted the stuffed Stitch (My favorite Disney character, a fellow traveler from the movie Lilo and Stitch) where he would be seen almost immediately.

She came off the elevator and walked right past Stitch to look at the vista before her. The view from Willis Tower is quite impressive. I had to tap her on the shoulder to get her attention. She stuttered a few times, “What the … What are you … Why are you here?” There were a few hugs and a few tears (Man tears, gosh darn it), and a trip that will not be soon forgotten. We walked around the observation deck for a while, and then she started migrating back to her friends. She went on to check into her hotel, and I left for mine. It was maybe an hour we spent together, but it is an hour that will stick in my memory.

I am going to be in Northbrook, Il., Tuesday night to see the play. If anyone in the area around Chicago wants to come visit, the show starts at 7:30PM, 2/16/10. I’ll be the proud dad sitting in the back.

Travel is tough these days. Long lines, small planes and grouchy TSA agents make our days flying no more fun than a visit to the dentist. However, it is small victories like this, when you can leverage your traveling experience into a story you will tell for years, which make it fun.

Print Friendly

  • Eric

    Ah, heck. Now you’ve gone and made me get teary. I can see myself doing that in a few more years with my daughter for exactly the same reasons. What good are those endless nights and weekends away if we can’t enjoy an occasional perk?

    Safe travels

  • Alice & Bob Kelly

    Nice job Ron – I’m glad you got to add this perk for both you and Sara. We know what it’s like for Dad to be gone adn this is truly a victory. Your little girl is pulling away but she knows who is there for her always.

  • Beth

    And excellent choice on your stuffed animal – Stitch is da man! (Well, da alien man-thing, anyway!)

  • Rich

    My wife and I had a similar experience. My daughter was going to Disney to compete in a dance competition, first time her school team had ever gone to a nationa competition. I had just returned from several trips with more coming up, wasn’t sure I would be able to go. We were going to be the only parents not there. I worked out a trip to meet with my wife in Orlando, never told my daughter that we were coming. We arrived at the Hotel in Disney, knocked on her room door. When she opened the door she started crying right away, as did everyone else. I love moments like that.

  • KH

    I SERIOUSLY APPLAUD U. The most important thing is when she has her own family & one day as she see’s her husband performing his “most important” father role(he might be taking time away from that critical client 2 attend that game,etc), she’ll remember & truly appreciate these moments. The 2 of u had a nice vacation together(1min/1hr) & u kept ur job. Never-the-less,u strengthened ur marriage even more.

  • Ron

    As a followup to my story, I went to see her play last night. I met her for a quick hug before the show, then I hung around as the group struck the set and got everything packed up.

    I got to see a side of my daughter, the independant young woman, that I never saw before. At home, she is the kid…..on tour, she is a young lady in charge of herself. I’m getting old…….

  • Sara

    dad your not getting old….im just getting older….hi im sara if your wondering…when i saw my dad at the top i was like what the heck are you doing here? yes i did start to cry a little but i was happy to see my dad. when he came to see my show i saw him before the show, at intermission, and after the show. i was very excited when he came to the show. then that night when i got to my host home i talked to my mom. all my friends and family knew he was coming. even everyone on the block in our “gang”. i came home and they were like how was tour and seeing your dad. everyone knew except me. i felt like the odd one out. hahah but tour was amazing and i am totally different when im on stage for some reason….. i guess i feel at home when im on stage and at Came Johnsonburg!!!

Previous post:

Next post: