A few years back, I was introduced to the book The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz. He offers four sacred agreements as a way for us to bring our best into the world on a daily basis.
So, how could those four agreements serve us in the hectic spaces of our traveling lives? Instead of racing from point to point with our intentions focused solely on the destination, perhaps these phrases can lead us toward more graceful travel along our path.
Be Impeccable With Your Words – Be thoughtful about the words that we choose to share with those at the ticketing counters, on our flight, or at the baggage claim. Instead of constant complaints, what if we used our words to send out ripples of encouragement, hope and positivity to those around us? Be authentic in speech and action.
Don’t Take Anything Personally – Don’t internalize another person’s negativity. Chances are that the issue they are upset about is not the real issue and the situation is probably out of their control anyway.
Don’t Make Assumptions – We have no idea what emotional baggage people are carrying with them on an everyday basis. We never have the full story. Instead of rushing to judgment and conclusions, give people the benefit of the doubt.
Always Be Your Best – What would it mean for the culture of air travel if we were able to bring our very best to the seemingly insignificant moments along our journey? Just think what viral influence the collective spirit of many can have on our world. Today, create excellence in between the destination points.
In a world that often wants us to be in two places at once and develop extensive 50 point actions plans, maybe we should dream big but start small. Maybe we should start with four agreements for today that will lead us into a better tomorrow. Even the best long range plans can only begin to be actualized by small, thoughtful, courageous movements right where we are today.
What four agreements do you want to make for your next travels?
Jason Barger is author of Step Back from the Baggage Claim: Change the World, Start at the Airport.
